Sunday, May 3, 2015

I am a Tri Delta woman!

I am a Tri Delta woman!

I am a Pansy.

I am an alumna.

I am a writer.

It has been five years since I signed my official bid to Delta Delta Delta, five years since I have been initiated into an organization that made my college career.

Three years since I became a Pansy and entered into the world of Tri Delta Alumnae women. Today I welcomed more sisters to alumnae status; sisters whom I have watched grow and develop.

Sarah, I was there when you were initiated and am proud to call you my sister! You’ve grown from a pearl to a pine and finally you are now a pansy! Congratulations, welcome to the brighter side of things!

Rebecca, although we have not known each other that long I am glad to have you in my life! I am so incredibly pleased to be able to call you part of my delta family! Your friendship is one I am truly thankful for! I cannot wait to see what the future has in store for you!

To all the other seniors who have transitioned from Pine to Pansy, Congratulations Sisters! This is a major accomplishment for you and I was glad to be a part of your Circle Degree!

DLAMA

xoxo

Sunday, April 26, 2015

Growing Pains

Hey Ya’ll!

So as everyone can tell I’ve got kind of radio silent in the last few weeks. It’s all good though!

My schedule got switched around at work so I no longer have Tuesdays off. I work Monday-Friday now, like a real person, THANK GOD! But that means there are a few growing pains because I had to adjust to my new schedule.

My final growing pain was figuring out a new day to do my weekly blog posts! Since I was taken off of Sundays and now work Tuesdays it seems logical to me to do my posts on Sundays!

Being that it is the weekend I know I may not be able to post at the same time every week, maybe early in the day, maybe late in the day, hell my posts might not even go live until Monday night. But I promise to make a concerted effort to post every week.

It pains me that I’ve been so lax in my posts every week and now it’s time to get back into the swing of things. With so many exciting things in the coming weeks I’m sure I’ll have plenty to post about!

Thank you for being patient with me!


xoxo

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

I don't have time ...

You don’t have time for a lot of things! Why is reading any different? 
It bothers me when anyone claiming to have a passion for reading will so cavalierly utter words such as, “I don’t have time.”
You find the time! No one said you have to read a whole book in one sitting, one day, one week or one month. Time is a wonderful thing; it is always there and moving and time won’t judge you for your slow reading. Your brain will not judge you for the long lapses between chapters, it will rejoice in the moments that you allow it to spend in an imagined world.
Reading is a passion like any other and if you truly are passionate about it you will find the time to feed that passion. A few pages here, a chapter or two there, a few minutes waiting in the doctor’s office or a few hours lounging on the beach. 
There is always time for what you are passionate for. So find the time, find the time for your passions, the way you would the mundane daily tasks.



Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Novena to St. Peregrine

Saint Peregrine
St. Peregrine is the Patron Saint of Cancer Patients. Today, March 10, is a big day in the Fallon household!

My mother is currently in NYC at Memorial Sloane-Kettering undergoing tests and exams to see how well the Radiation & Chemotherapy have worked on her tumor, her cancer.

Please keep my family in your thoughts and prayers today, say a quick novena to Saint Peregrine in honor of my mother! xoxo


 Glorious wonder-worker, St. Peregrine, you answered the divine call with a ready spirit, and forsook all the comforts of a life of ease and all the empty honors of the world to dedicate yourself to God in the Order of His holy Mother.
 
You labored manfully for the salvation of souls. In union with Jesus crucified, you endured painful sufferings with such patience as to deserve to be healed miraculously of an incurable cancer in your leg by a touch of His divine hand. 

Obtain for me the grace to answer every call of God and to fulfill His will in all the events of life. Enkindle in my heart a consuming zeal for the salvation of all men. 
Deliver me from the infirmities that afflict my body especially Virginia Fallon. 

Obtain for me also a perfect resignation to the sufferings it may please God to send me, so that, imitating our crucified Savior and His sorrowful Mother, I may merit eternal glory in heaven.

St. Peregrine, pray for me and for all who invoke your aid.

Sunday, March 1, 2015

From Page to Screen: Screenplays

Okay so I realize that I’ve been doing a lot of these, from page-to-screen, reviews, critiques, opinions, etc. But with the way the movie industry has been working as of late; cranking out movie after movie adapted from bestselling novels, it only seems appropriate that I, a self-appointed book nerd, give my opinion on the subject. I mean ultimately writing books is what I want to do, I want that to be my full-time job because that is where I find the most joy. For now though I continue to read what’s on the market and even see the movies, though don’t ask me to see 50 Shades of Grey, it’s not happening!

Thus I reach my point of this particular blog. Lately the internet has been inundated with 50 Shades, and justifiably so it was a best-selling novel and anticipated by many to hit the big screen; but of course where there are fans there are also nay-sayers. I would probably fall into the latter category, though I’m not quite as vocal as some I’ll just leave it at 50 Shades does not intrigue or interest me at all and leave it at that.

So when I tell you I’ve been following articles about the franchise it may shock you, but hey it’s all the internet wants to talk about and sometimes a slow day at work means reading Yahoo articles just to pass the time. That’s when I happened upon an article that made me shake my head and cringe.

E.L. James wants to be the exclusive writer for the screenplay for the 50 Shades sequel.

Someone’s joking here right? She really wants THAT much control over the next film? Demanding, in fact, enough control that would ultimately delay any and all production and bringing things to a grinding halt before they’ve even begun?

As an aspiring author myself you’d think I would be all for it! Hell yeah authors writing their own screenplays to their movies! This will be great! Wrong! Once more for affect … W-R-O-N-G! WRONG!

Look I get the appeal, I mean I would’ve been totally willing to sit in the theater for 17 straight hours and watch Harry Potter if it meant no detail had to hit the cutting room floor, no matter how miniscule. But that’s not everyone. Hey there’s plenty of people that are just not into reading and would simply rather see the movie, I consider to be blasphemy, but it’s a choice that others make and I’m okay with it. That’s why details need to hit the floor, it’s why cuts need to be made, it’s why pacing and timing are so important to keep the integrity of the book and the story while still creating something entirely different to capture a new audience!

I’m all for collaboration! Authors do need some level of control over the project; their voices must be heard during the production process. I mean my work is my baby! I pour my heart and soul into what I write! If I were ever lucky enough to have even a fraction of the success E.L. James has been blessed with I would not be acting as she has been. Yes she is entitled to be a bit of a mama bear protecting her cub, but she also needs to loosen the reins a bit and give away some of that control. She's basically a one hit wonder, her first novel sky rocketed, and it would probably only benefit her to learn from those that have been writing professionally for years! 

Collaboration! That’s key! Writing screenplays is an entirely different animal from novels/fiction. There are different rules! Formatting is completely different. Now I’m amenable and I would say if the author has prior movie experience, has written screenplays before or has even been trained on the How To’s of screenwriting then of course! Give the author some leeway and let them pen the screenplay, Gillian Flynn wrote the screenplay for Gone Girl! You go girl!

Here lies the difference though, in my mind at least, Gillian Flynn wrote the screenplay and her novel was a standalone. The movie was very successful but not 17 straight hours; details did need to be omitted and scenes were cut in the name of timing and pacing but the integrity of the book remained. E.L. James had a spat with the screenwriter for the first movie while she worked alongside him to create the screenplay and now believes she can take on the task and handle it herself.

Maybe she can, who knows? But realistically if she can handle it we won’t be seeing a sequel for two years, at minimum! The clock is ticking and I’m starting to think the 50 Shades fever will cool long before start of production is announced let alone ac actual release date for the film.

Tuesday, February 17, 2015

Three Times Better With Just One Letter ... ΔΔΔ

Thank you TimeHop!
 
I can’t believe it’s been five years to the day that I signed my bid to Delta Delta Delta! So much has happened to me in the last five years, so many new and exciting things! But seeing the pictures displayed on my TimeHop brings me right back to the day itself!

I remember squatting behind the stage with one of my new pledge sisters! *ahemMalloryahem* Both of us bursting with excitement as we prepared to join our new sisterhood and begin our New Member Process together.

I remember flashes. No really that’s a legit memory, just flash after flash as picture after picture was snapped. Fast forward only two short years the number of flashes became much fewer as I became the unofficial chapter photographer, only one camera necessary!

But really what I remember most are the people. I was suddenly surrounded by girls I didn’t know I had new sisters, but more importantly I had a whole new group of friends and a whole new family.

Five years ago had you asked me if I thought this group of girls would change my life my answer would have been, I hope so. Now five years later I can say for sure they did change my life. They’re my sisters, my support system, my friends, and my family.

Weekend trips to Hershey Park. Being kidnapped for a day of shopping at the outlets. My Big’s wedding! Supporting another sister’s accomplishments as she probably displays her art. Returning to my roots to assist the Alpha Alpha chapter prepare for their current recruitment process.

Delta Love and Mine Always Epsilon Mu’s!
BBPB

xoxo





Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Revision

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A piece of advice from NaNoWriMo:

Here's the thing about revision: it's as much about identifying the good stuff as it is about fixing the bad stuff.


……… and thus I continue with my revision process!